AINA KUU NNE ZA MAPENZI DUNIANI

Wataalamu wa masuala ya mapenzi wanasema kuna aina nyingi sana za mapenzi miongoni mwa binadamu. Hivyo ni muhimu kufahamu kuwa kupenda kwa mtu mmoja au watu kadhaa hakuwezi kulinganishwa na wengine kwa mazingira na mienendo.

Wakati fulani niliwahi kufanya uchunguzi miongoni mwa wapenzi ambapo nilikuwa nawauliza swali. “Vipi dada/ kaka, huyu ni mpenzi wako?” Wengi kati ya niliowauliza hawakupoteza hata nusu sekunde kujibu ‘NDIYO’.

Lakini watu hao hao nilipowauliza kwa mara nyingine “Unampenda kwa sababu gani?” Majibu ya wengi yalikuwa na sababu ambazo si za msingi na wengine walinyamaza au kuambulia kucheka.

Hebu wakati tunaendelea na mada hii, jiulize wewe mwenyewe ambaye una mke/mume swali kama hilo unampendea nini huyo mpenzi wako? Baada ya hapo sababu zinaweza kuwa ni kama zifuatazo “ Nampenda kwa sababu ni mzuri wa sura, tabia, umbo, na kusema kweli ananivutia” la kama hizo hazitakuwa sababu sina shaka nawe utanyamaza au utacheka.

Hii ina maana kuwa watu wengi ambao tuna wapenzi iwe wake au waume zetu, huenda tuliwapenda au tunawapenda hadi sasa bila kufahamu kwa nini tunawapenda na kitu gani kilitufanya tuwe wapenzi. Maana ikiwa ni uzuri, tabia, mvuto na sababu nyinginezo, basi lazima tufahamu kuwa uhai wa mapenzi yetu ni mdogo.

Inasemwa hivyo kwa sababu watu hubadilika tabia, sura, umbo, mvuto, ufahamu na hivyo kuweka ukomo wa mapenzi kuwa ni baada ya kutokea kwa mabadiliko hayo ambayo ni ya kawaida katika maisha ya mwanadamu, kwani ni wazi kwamba hakuna kinachodumu miongoni mwa hivyo vinavyotajwa na wengi kama sababu za kupendana.

Watalaam wa elimu nafsi na hasa Bw. Robert Stenberg walijitahidi sana kufanyia utafiti wa mapenzi na kuibuka na aina kuu kiasi cha nne ambazo wanazitaja kuwa ni PENZI LA UTIIFU, PENZI LA KUJALIANA, PENZI LA UIGIZAJI NA PENZI TIMILIFU.


Ufafanuzi unaotolewa na wataalamu hawa unaonyesha dhahiri makosa yanayoweza kufanywa na binadamu katika kuchagua au kupata wapenzi. Jambo ambalo limepelekea kuporomoka kwa uhusiano mwingi kati ya wanaume na wanawake. Wanasema penzi kamili linatakiwa kuwa na sifa tatu, ambazo ni tendo la ndoa, ukaribu na kujitolea.

PENZI LA UTIIFU

Penzi la utiifu au kama wengi wanavyolifahamu hujulikana kama ‘penzi la mahaba’. Katika aina hii ya penzi, wanaopendana hujali sana na kuendekeza zaidi miito ya kimwili. Mapenzi ya kiwango cha juu kabisa miongoni mwao hupatikana pale wanaposhiriki tendo la ndoa. Pia wanaopendana hupenda kuwa pamoja au karibu kwa muda mwingi.

Lakini kwa bahati mbaya penzi la aina hii linakosa sifa moja ambayo ni kujitolea. Wapenzi kwenye penzi hili huonekana na pengine hujiona kuwa wanapendana, lakini unapofika wakati ambapo kujitolea kunahitajika, penzi lililoonekana kushamiri hupukutika ghafla.

Kujitolea kunaweza kuwa na maana ya kuumia kwa ajili ya mwingine, kutoyumbishwa na watu wa pembeni na kuwa tayari kulinda penzi hilo kwa gharama yoyote. Kwa mfano ukiona mpenzi wako hayuko tayari kukusaidia unapoumwa, unapokuwa na matatizo, hakuhurumii unapokuwa taabuni ujue kuwa mapenzi yenu ni ya utiifu ambayo uhai wake ni mdogo.

Jambo la kufanya hapa ni kwa wapenzi wenyewe kujitambua na kuchukua hatua za kukamilisha pengo la kujaliana ili kutowapa nafasi wambea na shida za dunia kuyumbisha meli ya penzi ambayo wanasafiria, ikishindikana watu hawa wanashauriwa kutokuwa wepesi wa kuoana kwani uwezekano wa ndoa yao kutodumu ni mkubwa.

PENZI LA KUJALIANA

Penzi la kujaliana ni lile ambalo wanaopendana wanakuwa karibu mara zote na kushiriki mambo mengi pamoja. Wapenzi wa kundi hili huwa na hali ya kujitolea tofauti na penzi la utiifu ambalo tumeliangalia, lakini kasoro yao kubwa huwa kwenye miito ya mwili. Jambo la kufurahisha hapa ni kwamba wapenzi wa kundi hili wako makini kwa kila sehemu na mara nyingi huwa hawakubali kuingiliwa maamuzi ya mapenzi yao.

Lakini linapokuja suala la tando la ndoa hujitokeza kasoro nyingi za kutofikishana kileleni au kutofurahishana na hivyo anguko lao huletwa na muwasho wa mwili ambao huwasukuma wapendanao hao kutoka ndani ya uhusiano wao na kufanya usaliti.

Sasa ili kulifanya penzi la aina hii liwe imara lazima wapenzi waulizane kuhusu kutimiziana haja za mwili wanapokuwa faragha. Kama kuna kasoro kati yao si busara kufichana wanatakiwa kuwaona wataalamu wa mapenzi na kupata ushauri utakaosaidia kuondoa tatizo hilo. Hawa pia wanashauriwa kutooana haraka.

PENZI LA UIGIZAJI

Penzi la aina ya tatu linalotajwa na watafiti ni lile lijulikanalo kama penzi la Uigizaji. Hili ni lile penzi ambalo wanaopendana hukutana asubuhi na ikifika jioni tayari ni wapenzi kamili, ambapo hugandamana kama ruba, utadhani waigizaji wako kwenye matayarisho ya filamu. Ukiwatazama wanakuwa kama vichaa na msukumo wao wa kutimiza hisia za mwili huwa ni mkubwa kiasi cha kufikia kufanya mapenzi hata barabarani au kwenye sehemu za wazi.

Wapenzi wa aina hii huchukua muda mfupi sana kutangaziana mambo ya ndoa na pengine kuoana bila kufahamiana zaidi kitabia. Wanajuana asubuhi na jioni mwanamke/mwanaume keshahamia kwa mwenzake na maisha yanaanza, hapo hakuna ushauri wala muongozo wa watu wengine.

Tatizo kubwa ambalo hujitokeza katika penzi la aina hii ni wapenzi kuchokana mapema na hamu ya kufanya tendo la ndoa kupotea. “Yaani nikiwa na mume wangu sijisikii kabisa kufanya naye mapenzi, lakini kwa wengine nakuwa na hamu sana” hizi ni kauli za wapenzi wa penzi la kisinema sinema.

Mbali na hilo wapenzi wa aina hii ni rahisi kuporwa na kuanzisha uhusiano mpya, hivyo inashauriwa kuwa kwa wale ambao wanaona kuwa wako kwenye kundi hili, wajitahidi kujizuia na kupeana nafasi za kujuana zaidi kupitia ushauri wa watu wengine. Si vema kushiriki tendo la ndoa kila mara kwa staili na sehemu zile zile na pia haifai kukurupuka kuoana bila kuchunguzana tabia, ndoa za hivi hazidumu.


PENZI TIMILIFU
Aina ya mwisho ya penzi kama inavyoelezwa na mtaalamu Sternberq ni ile ya penzi timilifu. Aina hii ya mapenzi inakuwa na sifa zote tatu, yaani TENDO LA NDOA. Kwamba wapendanao huwa hawana kasoro katika eneo hili, unapofika muda wa kupeana raha hufikishana mahali pa juu. UKARIBU kwamba muda wote huwa karibu na kila mmoja hakai na kiu ya kutokumuona mwenzake kiasi cha kupoteza hisia na kushawishika kufanya usaliti.

Sifa ya mwisho ni KUJITOLEA. Ni mahodari kusaidiana, kufarijiana na hawako tayari kupokea mambo kutoka pembeni yanayohusu uhusiano wao, hivyo huwa si rahisi kwao kuyumba kwa sababu za umbea. Kumbuka katika penzi hili tendo la ndoa huwa si sehemu muhimu sana kwa wapenzi, yaani kwao penzi ni rohoni zaidi kuliko mwilini hata wakikaa muda wa miezi mitano bila kufanya tendo la ndoa upendo wao haupungui.

Hata hivyo, penzi la aina hii kwa mujibu wa wataalamu ni vigumu kupatikana na ni vigumu pia kulilinda, lakini linatajwa kuwa ni aina ya penzi bora ambalo ni muafaka kwa maisha ya baadaye ya ndoa kwa wanaopendana. Watu wengi kwa kutotambua aina hii ya mapenzi wamejikuta wakiliharibu kwa kufikiri tu kwamba wapenzi wao wamefika na hivyo kufanya makusudi ya kuharibu misingi ya penzi.

“Nimeshamshika atakwenda wapi, nikikohoa tu anaitika” Kauli kama hizi ni hatari sana katika penzi hili, hivyo inashauriwa ukiona unapendwa na mpenzi wako katika aina hii ya penzi ni vema ukawa macho ili kutolivunja kwa uzembe wako na kudhani unababaikiwa kumbe unapendwa kwa dhati.

MESEJI NZURI ZA MAPENZI KWA UMPENDAYE KWA DHATI

Kuna miezi 12 katika mwaka…siku 30 katika mwezi…siku 7 katika wiki, masaa 24 katika siku…dakika 60 katika saa……lakini wewe ni mmoja tu maishani mwangu.
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I asked God for a rose and He gave me a garden. I asked God for a drop of water and He gave me an ocean. I asked God for an angel and He gave me you!
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Kuna vitu viwili zinavyoniamsha asubuhi na mapema: Alamu ya saa yangu na wewe
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I will walk with you side by side for only one condition: hide your wings every time we walk together because the whole world might know that you're my angel!
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Bongo zenye fikra kali huwa na mawazo, suluhu na sababu; ubongo wa kisayansi huwa na kanuni, nadharia na takwimu; wangu una wewe tu!
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Do you take me to be your lawfully wedded text mate, in sickness or in health, through metering or not, till low bat do us part?
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Penzi linaweza kuelezewa kwa namna nyingi. Namna moja niijuayo nikumtumia mapenzi hayo mtu asomaye meseji hii.
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Each of us is an angel with one wing. The only way we could fly is to hold each other and share wings. So if you have trouble flying, I will always share mine with you.
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Kama ningeweza kubadili herufi, ningeweka yangu na yako kuwa pamoja.
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Minsan caring is better than loving. Minsan tea is better than coffee. Minsan smile is better than laughter. Pero nobody is better than you.
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Umewekwa usiku ili tuweze tuukubali mchana, huzuni ili tuikubali furaha, ubaya ili tuukubali uzuri, wewe ili niyakunali mapenzi.
I don't want to say I miss you, though deep inside I do, coz I'm afraid you might see thru and know how much fear I have of losing someone like you.
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Unaonekana kung’ara leo nilijuaje…….ni kwasababu unaonekana hivyo kila siku
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You greeted me hi, I didn't reply. You gave me a sweet smile, I responded with a sigh. You showed me your love, you received a shrug. But when you bid goodbye I began to cry.
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I have heard from the phone company, the water company, the electric company, but haven't heard from you. Too bad, it's your company I love the most.
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Mapenzi ni nini? Wale wasiopenda huita majukumu, wale wanaoyachezea huita mchezo, wale wasiokuwa nayo huita ndoto, na wale wanaoelewa huyaita mwisho wa safari, na mimi, mwisho wangu ni wewe.
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I've been wondering why you're not texting... Multiple choices: a. busy b. dilemma c. tired d. thrifty e. want me to miss you.
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Love is something special, a treasure I want to find... To others, love is blind but for me, its not true, coz when I fell in love...I saw you.
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Ni mapenzi gani yanayofanya simu yako ilie kila nitumapo meseji?
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True love is hard to find, special one, one of a kind. I know because it appeared to me on a strange day I met you.
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Kama mapenzi huweza kukimbiwa kwa kufumba macho yetu tu, basi nisingefunika macho kabisa. Sitaki sekunde ipite bila kukupenda wewe.
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While you gave her flowers, you gave me thorns. While all she did was smile, all I did is mourn. While she was so happy, I felt so blue. Because while you loved her, I was loving you.
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Nilikuwa nikifiria kwamba ndoto haziwezi kuwa kweli, lakini nilibadili mawazo yangu pale tu nilipokuona wewe.
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Baadhi ya watu huzaliwa na vipaji. Huweza kufanya mambo mazuri kwa ujuzi wao, lakini hamna anayekufikia wewe, kwani ukinisogelea tu kila kitu huwa kizuri.
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Can I say I love you today? If not, can I ask you again tomorrow? And the day after tomorrow? And the day after that? Coz I'll be loving you every single day of my life.
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Mwanamke ni yule amfanyaye mwanamme auhisi uanaume wake, wewe ni mwanamke mwenye sifa hizo.
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If love is a disease then I'm very ill. But I would not want medicine and won't take any pill. I would instead suffer this illness and be bedridden with joy of knowing you.
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Kukusahau wewe ni ngumu lakini kunisahau mimi ni juu yako. Usinisahau kamwe, unaweza kuisahau meseji hii, lakini si mtumaji.
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First time I saw you, I was scared to touch you. First time I touched you, I was scared to kiss you. First time I kissed you, I was scared to love you. But now that I love you, I'm scared to lose you!
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Mambo yanapokwenda mrama kumbuka kuwa kuna Mungu peponi anayekupenda na kukuangalia, lakini yupo duniani anayekujali ambaye ni mimi peke yangu.
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An angel asked me a reason why I care for you so much. I told her I care for you so much coz there's no reason not to.
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Why do birds fall from the sky every time you walk by? Maybe because like me they want to be near you!
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Simu huboa wakati mwingine, kwani ni lazima ufungue meseji na kuzisoma, kuichaji simu kila mara, lakini usichoke kwani ndiyo inayotuwezesha tuwasiliane
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They say as long as at least one person cares for you, life isn't a waste. So when things go terribly wrong, and you feel like giving up, please remember you still got me.
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Maneno huanza na ABC. Namba 123. Muziki na do re mi na mapenzi huanza na mimi na wewe.
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If only one star would fall every time I miss you, then all the stars in heaven would be gone. Don't wonder if there are no stars tonight! It's your fault coz you made me miss you a lot.
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Mvua na jua haviwezi kuwa pamoja, usiku na mchana hazigongani, lakini mimi na wewe, hata wasemaje, ‘tunafiti’ kuwa pamoja.
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If someone would ask me what a beautiful life means, I would lean my head on your shoulder and hold you close to me and answer with a smile: "Like this!"
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Niotapo ndoto, hukuota wewe...labda siku moja, inaweza kuwa kweli.
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Life may sometimes be a rough road to walk on where everything seems wrong. But don't give up. Just go on coz when you think you're all alone, look back and you'll find me walking along.
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Kuna bahari kati yetu. Misitu na milima inatutenganisha, mimi si ‘Supamani’ lakini nipe sekunde moja nitavuka nchi nyingi kukutumia mapenzi yangu. Umeipata hiyo?
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Someone once asked me, "Have you ever fallen in love?" Then I answered, "Of course, once." Then they asked me another question: "Did it hurt?" I thought of you and told them "Yes, very much".
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Kama ningeweza kutenga muda kidogo na kuufanya uendelee kung’ara siku zote, siku zote nilizoishi ningechagua wakati nilivyoishi nawe.
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I used to think that the world is so unfair, that it gave me so many reasons to hate it. But now, how can I hate such a wonderful world that gave me you?
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Natamani ningekuwa chozi jichoni mwako ambapo ningetelemka na kuishia midomoni mwako, lakini kamwe sitamani uwe chozi jichoni mwangu nitakupoteza kila muda niliapo.
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When it rains, you don't see the sun, but it's there. Hope we can be like that. We don't always see each other, but we will always be there for one another.
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Naweza kuishiwa ujumbe wa kukutumia. Naweza kuishiwa utani pia. Naweza kuishiwa chaji lakini moyo wangu hauwezi kukosa nafasi ya kukuweka.
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You'll know that you miss someone very much when every time you think of that person, your heart breaks into pieces and just a quick "Hello" from that person can bring the broken pieces back.
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Penzi, maisha yangu yote nimesoma juu ya neno hili, nimeota juu yake, nimelilia, nimelihitaji. Sasa pamoja nawe nimelipata.
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When the time comes I can't smile anymore, don't worry about me, I know what to do. I'll just stare at one corner and think of you. No one else could make me happy like the way you do.
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Kila mtu anataka kuwa jua linalong’arisha maisha yako, lakini ni afadhali niwe mwezi, ili nikuangazie wakati wa giza ambapo jua limechwea na haliangazi tena.
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There's a love that only you can give, a smile that only your lips can show, a twinkle that can only be seen in your eyes, and a life of mine that you alone can complete.
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Ah—Nimesahau jina lako. Ninaweza kukuita langu? Na iwapo utasahau langu, niite lako mpenzi!
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If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get a "HEART" or a "U" and get "HURT". But I'd rather choose "U" and get "HURT" than have a "HEART" without "U".
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Unaweza usione kamwe ni kwa kiasi gani ninavyokujali. Unaweza usisikie ni kwa kiasi gani nilivyokushiba, unaweza usihisi namna gani ninavyokukumbuka. Sababu ni moyo wangu tu uliyoyaficha hayo.
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There are 4 steps to happiness: 1. you, 2. me, 3. our hearts, 4. together!
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A day may start or end without a message from me, but believe me it won't start or end without me thinking of you. See! I just did. Take care.
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Kama busu ni maji ningekupatia bahari, kukumbatia ni majani, ningekupa msitu. Mapenzi ni maisha ningekupa yangu bure.
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It's hard to say hello because it might be goodbye. It's hard to say I'm okay because sometimes I'm not. But it's easy to say I miss you coz I know that I really do.
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Ni ngumu kwa watu wawili kupendana wanapoishi Dunia tofauti, lakini Dunia hizo zikutanapo na kuwa kitu kimoja, hiyo ndiyo maana ya kuitwa wewe na mimi.
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If you're feeling lonely and you think there is nobody there to love, support, listen or show they care, just save this message and every time you realize it, it will remind you that a part of me is always there with you.
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Watu husema kwamba, awapo mtu mmoja tu akupendaye, maisha hayajapoteza maana, kwa hiyo, ukijihisi mpweke hauhitaji kuishi nikumbuke mimi.
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Roses are red, violets are blue. I am waiting to hear from a cute guy like you.
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Watu waliniambia ninaweza kufanya chochote kama tu nitaweka mawazo yangu juu ya hicho kitu. Lakini kila nikijitahidi unaipoteza akili yangu
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Do you know that men and women are angels created with only one wing? And they need to embrace each other to be able to fly... Hope you can find your angel whom you can fly with forever.
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Furaha yangu kubwa ni kuliona tabasamu lako, kujua uko na furaha, na kuhisi upendo wako. Najua kuwa maisha mara nyingine huwa ni makatili, na hiyo ni sababu niko hapa kukuonyesha kuwa maisha yanaweza kuwa mazuri kama kuna mtu anayekujali.
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I always think of you, but I always fail to know the reason why. Is there something else I should know about you? But there is one thing that I know is true. That life will always be sad without you.
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Chuki huharibu akili; mapenzi huitibu. Umeitibu akili yangu.
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Don't say you love me unless you really mean it cause I might do something crazy like believe it.
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Kumjali mtu ni rahisi, lakini kumfanya mtu akujali ni vigumu, nashangaa umewezaje kunifanya nikujali?
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I'm afraid to close my eyes coz I might think of you. I'm afraid to open them coz I might see you. I'm afraid to move my lips coz I might speak of you. I'm afraid to listen coz I might hear my heart fall for you.
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I'm sorry to be smiling every time you're near. I'm sorry my eyes twinkle whenever you're here. I'm sorry that cupid has made his hit. I'm sorry I love you, I can't help it.
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Nitafute wakati una huzuni, nitafute wakati hamna wa kukusikiliza. Sijali kama mimi ni kimbilio lako la mwisho, bali sipendi ulie peke yako.
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If love can be avoided simply by closing our eyes, I wouldn't blink at all for I don't want to let a second pass having fallen out of love with you.
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Ningependa siku moja utamani sana kuwa na mimi, na uhangaike sana kunitafuta, ili ujue ni kwa kiasi ninavyotamani kuwa nawe sasa.
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If I could be any letter in the alphabet, I'd choose "V" so I can be next to "U"; if you could be any note, I wish you're "RE" so you’re always beside "ME"!
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Kila unachokifanya natamani niwepo, nikitumainia kila ndoto yako itimie kila muda na sehemu, niwepo nikikutakia mafanikio mema kwasababu nakujali.
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The spaces between our fingers were created so that another person's fingers could fill them in. Hope you'll find your dream hand to hold you forever.
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Viungo vyote vya mwili wangu vinakuhitaji, inawezekana kwasababu nimeumbwa kwa ajili yako.
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When you love someone, draw a circle around their name instead of a heart coz hearts can be broken but circles never end.
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Nobody tells fish to swim, birds to fly, cows to moo, dogs to bark - they just do. Just like nobody tells me to remember you. I just do!
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Kama ungekuwa kidonda kwenye moyo wangu, ningekiacha na maumivu yake ndani yangu.
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Whenever you feel blue, I will be there for you. Whenever you are sad, I will stay by your side. Whenever you need someone to love, I will always be there for you to have.
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They can recycle paper till it's as good as new, reproduce cans and jars and old bottles too, but they can never recycle another person as wonderful as you.
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What good is beauty without brains, looks without charm, money without happiness, a smile without feelings, a life without you?
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Kusumbuliwa na mlio wa simu yako, humaanisha kuwa muda fulani, mahali fulani, kuna mtu anakufikiria muda huu, na huyo ni mimi mara zote nakujali.
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A person you love is an extension of yourself. Without it, you're not complete so better take care of yourself because I don't want to lose a part of me.
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I wish my eyes could speak what my heart feels for you; coz my lips can lie on what is true. My eyes couldn't coz even if I close them I could still see you.
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Every time I hear my text tone, I always hope one of them is from you. My cell phone may have limited memory space but my heart has unlimited space for someone like you.
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Nimekuapata! Kama unanichukia, nipige mshale, lakini tafadhali si moyoni sababu hapo ndipo wewe ulipo.
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Someone asked what makes people happy. Some said wealth and some said fame. I was thinking about this when my cell phone beeped and received a text from you. Then, I smiled and said: "This makes me happy."
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You're like a target that I always try to aim at. How I wish I could aim you at the heart. But every time I fail, I feel so sad. You know why? It's because I always end up missing you.
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Naweza kukuazima mabega yangu upande, masikio yangu usikilizie mikono yangu ushikie, miguu yangu, utembelee, lakini si moyo wangu kwani tayari unao wewe.
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If I get takot, would you hawak me tight? If I gawa something mali, would you make it right? If I build an apoy, would you bantay the flame? If I sabi I miss u, would you ramdam the same?
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Lazima utakuwa mwizi sababu umeiba moyo wangu, umechoka sababu unakimbia mara zote akilini mwangu, na labda mimi sina shabaha sababu mara zote nikikulenga nakukosa.
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Mpenzi kwa mara ya kwanza nilipokuana niliogopa kukuambia, hata nilipokuambia niliogopa kukupenda, nilipokupenda sasa naogopa mno kukupoteza. Kusema kweli siko tayari kukukosa katika maisha yangu.
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If a kiss were a raindrop, I'd send you showers. If hugs were a second, I'd send you hours. If smiles were water, I'd send you the sea. If love was a person, I'd send you me.
If I had to choose whether to breathe or to love you, I would use my last breath to tell you that... I love you.
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Wanasema mtu huanguka katika mapenzi mara moja, jambo ambalo mimi naliona si la kweli kwa maana kila ninapokutazama najikuta nakupenda tena na tena.
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It's magic each time we hold each other, each time we cuddle, and each time we kiss. I feel goosebumps all over again. I never want to let you go for fear of losing you, so I just hold on a little bit tighter each day, refusing to let go. You will never know the warmth I feel inside me when I'm with you. You're all I ever wanted.
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Mpenzi wangu kukutana nawe ilikuwa ni bahati, kukuchagua kuwa rafiki yangu ilikuwa ni maamuzi yangu, lakini kuanguka kwenye penzi lako haikuwa hiyari yangu. Umeniteka moyo na akili yangu pia.
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You may not love me like I love you,You may not care for me like I care for you But if you ever need me, I will always be around for you.
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Imani hufanya mambo yote yawezekane, Matumaini hufufua yaliyopoteza uhai, lakini mapenzi hufanya mambo yote yaonekane mazuri. Sina linalonihuzunisha maishani mwangu kwa kuwa tunapendana!
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Love doesn't make the world go round, it just makes the ride worthwhile. Love is in your heart not to stay, but to be shared.
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Mpenzi wangu T tambua kuwa ulimwengu tunaoishi una mambo muhimu matatu. Jambo la kwanza ni kumpata umpendaye, la pili ni kupata atakayekupenda la tatu ambalo ni kubwa kuliko yote ni kwa jambo la kwanza na la pili kuungana pamoja.
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If you love someone, you give everything as you can and don't expect to receive anything in return.
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Ni vigumu kumpata mwenye mapenzi ya kweli na zaidi yule atakayekuwa tayari kukupenda zaidi, hivyo nafasi inapopatika si busara kuichezea tudumishe penzi letu laazizi wangu.
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Mpenzi nakupa pole sana maana nimesikia habari mbaya kwamba unatafutwa na polisi kwa kosa kubwa sana ambalo huwezi kulikana na lina ushahidi wa kutosha kwamba unatuhumiwa kuiba moyo na mawazo yangu kiasi cha kunijeruhi mawazo yangu hadi sasa naonekana kama chizi.
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When you will find any reason for your love,you should know that your love is not true....because true love has no reasons...
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You don't have to love in words; even through the silences love is always heard. I Love You Honey! The way you look into my eyes It scares me The way you say "I love you"
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Nakupenda mpenzi W nafasi uliyotawala moyoni mwangu ni kubwa, hakuna ambaye anaweza kufikia uhodari wako, wewe ni mtu muhimu sana maishani mwangu.
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Just 3 words, i have to say it ,no matter where we are,no matter who were with, no matter how lond it takes i have to say i love you
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Nakupenda sana mwandani wangu ndiyo maana moyo wangu hupatwa kidonda ninaokuona na mwingine hasa anapokuwa hana sifa, nahisi kama anakutumia wewe kama mdori wake wa kumfurahisha. Uwe makini ua la moyo wangu.
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J, I love u frm core of my heart.My Every beat of heart is u n wen it pumb blood frm heart n blood goes to brain it again remember's u....I LOVE U
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I wish my eyes could speak what my heart feels for u bcoz my lips could lie on what is true.My eyes couldn't bcoz even if would close them i would still see u ....... love you still n after my last breath
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Nakupenda mpenzi wangu, sifikirii kitu chochote zaidi yako na kwa kuwa nakupenda sipendi kuwa na urafiki hata na msichana kwani atakuwa anabana nafasi niliyokuwekea wewe. Noamba unipende nami nakupenda kila sikunde inayopita maishani mwangu. Mwaaaaaaaaa baby.
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Penzi lako ndiyo pumzi yangu nawezaje kukuacha laazizi, ina maana nife??? Siwezi kukuacha nakupenda. Nitakupenda mpaka mwisho wa uhai wangu.
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I LOVE you not for who you are, but for how you make me feel... Every time you touch me i can feel my heart going BOOM BOOM BOOM and it goes faster and faster. When you are not next to me i feel like a part of me
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Asali wa moyo wangu, fahamu kuwa unaweza kuamini kwamba mwanga wa nyota unaweza kuunguza nyumba, jua linaweza kusimama, lakini usiwaze hata siku moja kuwa naweza kukuacha.
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To the soul that hug my soul,to the heart that kept his secret in mine,to the hand that lighted the fire of my emotions,to my lovely butterfly....love will keep us alive
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Nakupenda sana P tafadhari usinikasirikie, nimekukumbuka nahitaji kukuona unipoze moyo wangu, njooo mwandani wangu nakusubiri daktari wangu.
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U may be out of my sight, but not out of my heart. U may be out of my reach, but not out of my mind. I may mean nothing to u, but u'll always be special to me.
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I love so much my heart is sure. As time goes on I love you more. Your happy smile, Your loving face, No one will ever take your place.
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Mpenzi unawafahamu maadui wa mapenzi yetu ? Ni wale rafiki zako wanaokuletea maneno ya uongo, ndugu zako wanaotugombanisha na wachawi wanotuotea mabaya, tujihadhari tusiwape ushindi. Mapenzi yetu yadumu daima.
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You have my heart, my soul, and my love. you mean the world to me, and i would do anything for you. you are my true love and I want to be with you forever. you are truley amazing and deserve the very best. I only h
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Uchungu wa kifo hauna tofauti na maumivu nitakayoyapata ukiniachana, mpenzi usiniache nami siko tayari kukuacha.
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I love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of your voice. I love your gentle touch, and I love the warmth I feel when I’m by your side. I can't stop THINKIG ABOUT U